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Top 5 things NOT to say to Libra (Libra Rising sign)


1. “AHHRGGHHHAA!”

elaine marolakos edelson, annie jennings pr, jenningswireNever ever lose your cool around a Libran. It’s offensive, shocking, and a huge turn off. If you’ve got a gripe with your harmonious Libran, set aside a time and place when you can talk to them in private. Start your conversation with, “Thank you so much for taking the time to listen. I noticed that….” and fill in the blank without accusations.

Libran’s will shut down if they are implicated in wrong-doing (even if they are)! Their whole gig is about creating harmony and pleasing everyone around them. It would freak them out to think they stepped on your toes!

2. “Oh, I forgot we had an appointment.”

Nope. Not gonna work. If you’d like to score points with your Libran, be punctual! Above all REMEMBER things.

Punctuality and memory are two things a Libran sees as virtues. They like order. Always remember appointments with them. If you happen to forget, they’ll smile at you but simultaneously think, “What an idiot. He can’t even remember that we were supposed to go hiking today.”

3. “Wanna stay at my place?”

“Oh, don’t mind the piles of crap, I’ll kick that stuff out of your way and make a space for you on the floor.” Do you even know any Librans? If you did, you’d never say that to them. They need order and cleanliness to feel harmonious. They need their closets to be organized by color, size, and fabric.

They need you to wear matching socks if you’re ever to be seen with them. Oh, but now that I think of it…there are some Libra Rising signs that are so unconcerned with style and neatness—those are the ones that live on the extreme scale of feeling “unworthy.”

Once they value themselves, though, they start to dress and feel beautiful. The remaining Librans, and Libra Risings, however, will notice your wrinkled shirt before you can blink. Those Libra folks can walk through a wind storm and come out the other side looking like Audrey Hepburn.

(Well, no, not the men…but you know what I mean!)

4. “WELL? Are you in or are you out? DECIDE.”

Yeah, ah giving ultimatums to your Libran literally makes them disappear like Houdini. Libran’s like magic just as much as the next sign, but I wouldn’t force them to make any hasty decisions. Especially if emotions are involved.

They get kinda confused and very defensive if you circle them like a hawk demanding anything from them. That’s when they either make a decision to please you and then change their mind later (making you crazy.)

OR they get controlling and aloof. Not very productive. If you’d like to know the true feelings of your Libran, present them with two logical sentences and allow them time to process what they feel…

For instance you could say, “Libran, I was wondering if you made a decision to join us at the game or would you prefer to stay at home and organize your kitchen so it looks like no one lives there?”

5. “You’re okay that I did that, right?”

Libran’s don’t ever want to offend anyone by telling them off. If you somehow cause an uncomfortable situation for your Libran they’ll hold their breath and think, “Are you out of your Bleeping mind? I HATE that you did that! You’re such a low life loser!”

But what they say instead is, “Oh, it’s okay. Don’t worry about it.” Librans have very solid opinions, to be sure. But sometimes they don’t like to create disharmony, so they have trouble being direct. This actually pushes others to pin them down for an answer, thereby creating disharmony. The scales are a tricky thing to balance!

To help your Libran express without the fear of hurting you, (or them) tell them that it’s okay to be honest and direct. That honesty will create harmony in your relationship with them.


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9 Responses to "Top 5 things NOT to say to Libra (Libra Rising sign)"

  1. raied4523 says:

    Libras are backstabbers, liars, lazy, and losers! They are shallow and have no loyalty. They are literally the most hated sign of the zodiac. They are also stubborn and will most likely NEVER admit that they are wrong and if they apologize, it will not be genuine. Never ever trust a Libra. Did I mention that they are stalkers who are insecure too? They don’t have their own identity so they steal others? Yep, that is a Libra in a nutshell. Trust me, there is a reason why they are the only sign that is represented as a mechanical tool. Its because they have NO HEART! Kim Kardashian is one, now what does that tell you?

  2. Qwerty says:

    Hey you prick go sulk about Librans somewhere else!

  3. libra killer says:

    Yup Raied4523 nailed it!!

    Libras are fake, shallow, superficial, airheads, always lying, HUGE inferiority complex, weak, won’t stand up for themselves, have to surround themselves with other people cuz they’re too weak to stand on their own, they gossip like little girls, stab you in the back, they think they’re so smart when they copy everyone and steal ideas from people, no originality whatsoever…oh, and so annoying and irritating, everyone laughs at them behind their back!!! Ha ha ha Look at gwyneth paltrow, everybody hates that ugly libra garbage pail!!!

  4. Libra king says:

    Very interesting article indeed, very accurate and I would have to say that those who have so many negative things to say about us librans, whatever went wrong with you and your libra..you did it to yourself, believe that. Do librans lie? Of course we do just like anyone else, but in all honesty we only lie to avoid a worse outcome. Evwrytging we do i s based upon logic. For example would you rather cut off your finger or your tongue, obviously the tongue would be far less pleasant so therefore off with the finger..this is why we lie in the given situation it is the lesser of two evils, does it make it right to lie, well no but it is the more pleasant of the outcomes at the time. Are we superficial ..well yes if you insist yes I am. I like to thin k of it as never settling for less than the best, you have to understand everything around you reflects on you as a person. I won’t be with less than what I feel I deserve, if that makes me superficial so be it. Shallow.. nah, I just like to be surrounded by beautiful things brings me peace and harmony 2 things i must have at all costs. As for loyalty a libra is only gonna be as loyal as you are ( hence the scales) if you dish it out be prepared to take it back in spades when dealibg with a member of the libra order, we go out of our way for our friends and our mates but when we feel like you’re abusing that gift poof we are gone are so is our loyalty. When a libra commits you will nor find a more faithful sign, if you turn into an ungrateful asshole then all bets are off. We start looking for a replacement. Ita not logical to remain in an unbalanced situation indefinitely. It is true we can be very insecure but so are a great many other people in this world if you really need to know of the asshole signs look no further than virgo and aries
    Virgo
    Sneaky
    Selfish
    Analytical to use your weaknesses against you
    Liars
    Always critical yet cannot take criticisms
    Most unloyal only out for self

    Aries
    Hot headed
    Fight loving
    Know it all
    Motto is I’m always right
    Unromantic
    Brash
    Stubborn
    Uncouth
    No tact whatsoever
    About as subtle as a bulll in a china shop

    Perhaps you should take your gripes there
    Just a thought
    Good day to the both of you.

  5. Libra king says:

    Very interesting article indeed, very accurate and I would have to say that those who have so many negative things to say about us librans, whatever went wrong with you and your libra..you did it to yourself, believe that. Do librans lie? Of course we do just like anyone else, but in all honesty we only lie to avoid a worse outcome. Everything we do is based upon logic. For example would you rather cut off your finger or your tongue, obviously the tongue would be far less pleasant so therefore off with the finger..this is why we lie in the given situation it is the lesser of two evils, does it make it right to lie, well no but it is the more pleasant of the outcomes at the time. Are we superficial ..well yes if you insist yes I am. I like to think of it as never settling for less than the best, you have to understand everything around you reflects on you as a person. I won’t be with less than what I feel I deserve, if that makes me superficial so be it. Shallow.. nah, I just like to be surrounded by beautiful things brings me peace and harmony 2 things i must have at all costs. As for loyalty a libra is only gonna be as loyal as you are ( hence the scales) if you dish it out be prepared to take it back in spades when dealing with a member of the libra order, we go out of our way for our friends and our mates but when we feel like you’re abusing that gift poof we are gone are so is our loyalty. When a libra commits you will nor find a more faithful sign, if you turn into an ungrateful asshole then all bets are off. We start looking for a replacement. Its not logical to remain in an unbalanced situation indefinitely. It is true we can be very insecure but so are a great many other people in this world if you really need to know of the asshole signs look no further than virgo and aries
    Virgo
    Sneaky
    Selfish
    Analytical to use your weaknesses against you
    Liars
    Always critical yet cannot take criticisms
    Most unloyal only out for self

    Aries
    Hot headed
    Fight loving
    Know it all
    Motto is I’m always right
    Unromantic
    Brash
    Stubborn
    Uncouth
    No tact whatsoever
    About as subtle as a bulll in a china shop

    Perhaps you should take your gripes there
    Just a thought
    Good day to the both of you.

  6. LibraM says:

    Hate a Libra? Who cares, we will find someone who doesn’t. Moving on.

  7. LibraLife says:

    Dear all people who hate Libras:

    Just like everyone in the world, you will get a bad tomato in the group. Even though I have slight anger issues, I am very kind. You must of gotten a bad tomato, but hey- maybe your mom is a Libra, or maybe your bestest friend. Please, think about what your about to send onto an online website. Go drink a cup of water!

    Thank You,
    A calm yet concerned Libra

  8. Anonymous says:

    Aries
    Hot headed
    Fight loving
    Know it all
    Motto is I’m always right
    Unromantic
    Brash
    Stubborn
    Uncouth
    No tact whatsoever
    About as subtle as a bulll in a china shop
    Perhaps you should take your gripes there
    Just a thought
    Good day to the both of you.

    Sounds like a Libra I guess that is why they suit fire signs like Aries

  9. Anonymous says:

    I agree with all of the above accept the fact LibraLife would prefer the negative traits of a star sign left off an online site, I think this is a good thing that the negaitive trais of a star sign has been posted while all signs have their dark side they also have a lighter side, unfortunately western culture has developed ego syndromes which they seem to refuse to rise above evolve and take the good with the bad that all star signs have to offer, the more understanding through astrology we have of one another both bad and good qualities, we could turn into a positive to be better people towards one another, perhaps drop that arrogant egotistic nature for once and try to understand each other with more empathy in mind? but I say that as a logical practical loving thinking Taurus <3 11:11

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