Strong, confident people are attractive.
They may or may not have aesthetic beauty, but they attract good people and opportunities into their lives like magnets. Why? Because strong, confident people want to be in relationship with others like them. They want to do business and be in business with people like them. These people are often capable and ambitious, and many are optimistic and are not afraid to take the initiative to do what they believe needs to be done in a given situation. In a crisis, they take charge, not for ego’s sake but because they cannot stand by and not take action.
These are the people who get the sweet job offers and amazing business opportunities. They may not be the smartest or most highly educated candidate considered, but their attitudes and the way they carry themselves very often get them the coveted positions. Their work ethic and ability to leverage their strengths help them keep the job and get even further ahead.
There are strong people who have the swagger, but who don’t have the character to back it up.
These are the celebrities with thousands of Twitter followers who are attractive because of the strength of their personalities, not necessarily their likability or talent. For example, Lindsey Lohan, Kim Kardashian, Howard Stern, Charlie Sheen and others aren’t necessarily likable, but millions follow and listen. Why? Their personal power attracts the attention of others.
On the other hand, people who seem weak or needy, lacking confidence, often complain and act as though the world owes them something. Often they go through life unaware of the fact that it’s their own attitudes repelling the breaks they wish would come their way.
So, if you want to be successful in your personal and professional life, begin today to act like the strong, capable, confident person you were created to be, and you will attract good people and good opportunities into your life. I’m Rhonda. For your copy of one of my FREE ebooks of Success Tips, go to www.rhonda.org.